Ms. Demeanor's Vertical Etiquette

Dear Ms. Demeanor: Is it okay to put a camera in the playroom?

By Jamie Lauren Sutton  | March 30, 2011 - 1:24PM

Dear Ms. Demeanor,

We live in an older building that recently converted part of the laundry room to a children's playspace.  Do you think it is appropriate to have cameras installed? 


Camera Shy

Dear Camera Shy,

Congratulations on the playspace (and I hope the loss of laundry room space means that you and some of your neighbors have been able to install washer/dryers!).

I'm not quite sure what would be inappropriate about putting cameras in the playroom, unless other common areas do not have them.  Are you concerned that the caregivers and/or parents with the children will feel somehow spied on or intruded upon?  I think they are a wonderful idea no matter how the data is handled--viewed remotely or by a doorman, or recorded.

The cameras do not, however, replace adult supervision of young children. Doormen and security companies are not hired to be babysitters, neither in-person nor via closed-circuit television.  

And as a sidenote, if you haven't already, your building would be wise to put detailed rules in place (e.g. children under 12 are not permitted without an adult, only so many children at one time, nut-free or no-food-allowed environment, etc.).   


Ms. Demeanor



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