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I lived in Astoria for a year. Whenever I left Manhattan heading home to Astoria, I always kept in mind the N/Q has an expiration time—midnight.

Since I’m really unfamiliar with buses, the N/Q was my only option -- but an unreliable one at that.

Late at night the Q would stop running past the last stop in Manhattan, 57th and 7th, while the N would run in its place. They say it comes every 20 minutes, but that 20 minutes feels like a lifetime—especially at 3 AM on a Friday night.

I remember several occasions when that “20 minutes” was actually more like 40 or 45 minutes. Every once in a while, the N/Q doesn’t even go to Queens to service the trains.

Then, I would have to take the 7 to Queensboro Plaza to catch an N train that would be just running back and forth just in Queens or a shuttle bus instead. It was a nightmare.

Sure, I could’ve hung out more in Astoria, but have you ever gone out in Astoria? The nightlife is limited to two options: the biergartens  (which are, admittedly, great and one was close to me) or the bass-pumping clubs where the men’s shirts are a little too tight and you can smell the steroids a mile away. 

If I was in the mood for something a little in between, Astoria didn’t give me that option.

If I chose to stay out after class with my friends, the Q midnight deadline loomed over me the same way I imagine Cinderella thought about her carriage. It was either go home early or dread taking the 7 to the Queensborough stop then switching back to the N/Q, which meant that I had to go from Manhattan to a different part of Queens and then back to Astoria.

During the day,  the N/Q wasn’t so bad. Well, I imagine it wouldn’t be bad, if you didn’t have to commute an hour and 10 minutes each way to TriBeCa, where I go to New York Law School.

That train has its perks, though, like its close proximity to the taco trucks (they were just one stop away from me). I would get off on 30^th Ave and 31^st St., get some cheap and delicious tacos, and walk back to my apartment on Steinway between Ditmars and 30^th Ave.

The taco trucks weren’t the only good food option. Steinway felt like a small-town with lots of ethnic food or if I felt homesick for Long Island, jumbo, all-service, big-menu restaurants like The Grand Café line 30^th Ave.

If you like space -- you know, square footage -- Astoria should be your first option. I shared a three-bedroom apartment, which was more like an entire floor, with a friend and a friend of a friend.

We never used our giant kitchen, which was so well ventilated that we turned it into our personal smoking room.

When our lease was up,  a friend from law school asked me to move in with him in a two-bedroom on Avenue C and 12th. In Alphabet City, you’re lucky to get a full-size fridge. I quickly realized I had lived in a kingdom.

The space is a small tradeoff, especially for a guy who is notoriously bad at picking places to eat. In Alphabet City, you can just point to a restaurant and it’s likely that it’ll be a good option.

I can walk to well-known places, like Crif Dogs or Artichoke, which are within walking distance, and it’s easy to discover someplace new.

The Alphabet City Beer Co., which is on Ave. C between 6^th and 7^th, is a beer geek’s Wal-Mart. If you walk all the way to the back, you’ll discover a dungeon-like sitting area with a communal table or over-sized chairs if you’re not into sitting next to random people.

Finnerty’s on 13^th and 2^nd Ave is a great bar. It’s a San Francisco sports bar, but I suppose no one likes San Francisco, so I usually get the bar to myself.

When I’m in the mood for a good crowd, I head over to No Malice Palace on 3^rd and Avenue B. To be honest, they play mostly ’90s hip-hop, and the dance floor is usually too crowded to dance, but it’s a great place to end the night. Who doesn’t want to listen to “The Thong Song” every once in a while? It’s what we (or at least  I) grew up with.

I’m close to every train line now and the M14 helped end my bus phobiaf (maybe it's because the L train is way too stuffed with hipsters or because the bus stops RIGHT on front of my apartment. If I’m running late, I’m only a $15 cab ride away from TriBeCa.

Back in Astoria, I took a cab twice. The first time, it cost me $35. The second time, it cost me two and a half hours, because the cab driver heard me wrong and drove me to 185^th and Broadway instead of 185 Broadway. I didn’t realize until I was headed toward Yankee Stadium where I hopped onto a train downtown. It’s nice to put those days to an end.

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